Recently it's real that i'm under lots of pressure, the work, the life, especially the wedding, you know how much it will cost you if you have a wedding in Shanghai? Over 150,000RMB which also depends on how many people you will invite and where to have honey moon,air tickets, brand of diamond ring, special wedding plan, wedding dresses, blah blah blah. IT DRIVES ME CRAZY.
150,000RMB means a lot for young chinese couples, guess how many years they need to work hard and save hard. Mickeal is french, i wish he was chinese so that his parent could help him a little bit at least, but he isn't. The chinese traditon is the groom's family(parents) take care of the house purchase, decro expense, the whole wedding expense, well, yes, all chinese people work hard and save hard for the whole life just for their sons' wedding, what the FCUK. They're not liveing for themselves but for their sons. Just becasue those people lead the wedding way over and over, therefore the wedding expense increases as much fast and high as the rocket, and of course the face thing. Who doesn't wanna deserve a brillant and amazing wedding for once in their whole life?!
I used to be so tired of the wedding warm up, such as search good hotels, agencies for wedding photograph, wedding plans, etc. One day, i almost wanted to give up, as i really didn't get it why we need to spend so much MONEY&TIME on the wedding. Why can't we just have a small decent causal wedding party? WHY? The answer is i'm chinese, for my family good, for my own good, we just need to do it.
C'est la vie! sigh














